Have You Ever Thought of Settling Down?
Yes a weird post for me today, I kinda notice my blogs were mostly filled with movies. Sorry about that, I just love movies. Anyways, back to the topic.
Have You Ever Thought of Settling Down?
Whoever you are – playful, easy-go-lucky, serious, uncertain, smart or any kind of person I’m certainly sure that this would come cross your mind somehow. Having a family, beautiful kids, etc. Sounds too easy and perfect BUT definitely it’s NOT. You have to consider a lot of things like if you are truly ready for the responsibility, willing to give up and sacrifice for your family, can you provide a better future for them and many many many more.
Wow… even with just 3 questions it will already put you in a doubt. It will send shivers to your spine. But as I’ve said, this question will naturally come no matter what. You can’t just play your whole life or you can’t just be alone without having someone to share your life with.
It will come… It will!
I’m not here to scare you, I just want us(Yes including me, I’m not exempted) to be ready when that time comes. Somehow it needs practice to become a responsible person and we can do it daily. Simple things like saving up, making independent decisions, help out your parents in return, try to think less for yourself and try to think of others and many more. It will take time, maybe even the time comes you won’t still be fully ready but at least you won’t be shock at the sudden change of what you’re used to be. Once you have a family, things would be different.
One thing is for sure, if you’ve decided to settle down and you are certain about it, future might be unpredictable but nothing would be greater than facing the world with your partner/family and give the best you can. With faith, love and religion nothing will ever break your family and overcome all the odds. Also NEVER aim for a perfect family because you will just be disappointed, remember that being imperfect makes us who we are right now and that’s the beauty of life. We fail, we stand up and learn from it.
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Yes a long time ago. And there should be no reason to get scared of getting married and having kids
Last year was tough, it was a year where a lot of my friends, the closest, got married, left the country, they really went off the grid…and that’s a big change. Not just for them but as for me, and i wasn’t really prepared for it ^^. But i was able to get over it hihi.
i am never gonna get married!!!!
what !!!!!
COMMITMENT OVER NEW PUSSY!!!!
getting married is like eating a plate of broken glass amd having boiling oil for a drink….
i am staying single till i die…
being single is the best feeling in the world…..no stranger telling u what to do…no woman nagging you about everything you do…no kids to feed..weeeeeeeeeee
so if u r thinking about getting hitched!!! u better whack yourself in the head with a hammer and wake up.
@DCWired, marriage is not all about pussy. Jesus Christ man. It is very clear that you dont like having these kind of responsibilities and of course you are entitled to your own opinion. But seriously, if you’re getting old and you feel like you’re all alone, is worth being single at this point in time?
Singles have no one to bounce things off of, while married people tend to work things out together.
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Whoa….now now…
i have nothing against being married nor being single my entire life. But what matters is that, whether single or not, it’s how you live your life…it’s just that when you’re single and vulnerable to lust, though that doesn’t mean married couples don’t, the difference is just that when you’re married, you are accountable with each other’s struggles. So I would agree with what Roy is saying, somebody to bounce things off..meaning, someone who could pull you out..being accountable
OENONE…enjoy your being single, much more enjoy your life.
Whoa whoa whoa… Thanks for the comments guys! Oenone your comment can create a spark of an argument. I like that, BUT I KNOW YOU’RE JUST BEING SARCASTIC SINCE YOU ALREADY HAVE A FAMILY so I know you’re just playing around. I love issues so thanks man!
I also have nothing against being married or single but for now I’ve known myself very well and I know that I’m not yet ready.
Single or Married, we will always have struggles and joy. But the good thing about being in a commitment is that you’re not alone. The joy of marriage is to face the bitch slap of daily living TOGETHER. Time will test the commitment you’ve both promised and that’s the beauty of that.
Yes single is fun, screw anyone, work for your own good, have the time of your life BUT as you grow older you’ll surely look for something REAL. it’s NOT JUST ABOUT SEX.
Not all marriage end up happily. Ask my parents, they knew that. We all knew not all ends happily ever after. But at least once in your life you’ve feel something real, something worth fighting for rather than for your owns sake.
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yikes
call it karma or what!!!!!
i just got somebody pregnant!!!!
so i guess im getting married.
gadd deym!!!
its all your fault henry!!!!!!