How to Forget Someone You Loved?
Finally I decided to re-post this very interesting topic I created way back in my old blog site. I think it’s a perfect time to re-post this now, better be ready than sorry.:( I’ll make a few edits, if you want to see the original post read it here.
Failed Relationship and Heartbroken… The most common reasons why you want to forget someone.
Some(not all) romantic relationship can really be complicated and end up breaking up. Fact about this break up is at least one or both heart/s will be broken or nothing will be break if it is just a so called ‘infatuation‘ or just playing around. But if you really loved that someone, this would really be difficult to overcome. Some just don’t want to face the world yet and just preferred to be alone. It doesn’t matter if you wish things could be different, regret the things you did or angry with revenge in mind. The fact is: It already happened. The damage is done, you’re hurt and heartbroken.
I’ve read some tips to forget someone. It suggests cry everything out, busy yourself with something else like work or hobby or go out new places, spend time with your true friends, avoid the person you want to forget or the things that you remind of, avoid the romantic things like movies or songs, take care of yourself and don’t leave it unattended due to pain and lastly ACCEPT IT!
Also, never get into a new relationship if you never get over it. It would just end up disastrously just like how your heart was broke and everything will repeat itself. Doing this would also create a new damage to your ‘cover up‘ partner, you get my point. You just inflict the pain you felt to someone.
In reality, forgetting someone is really not that easy to do nor just by following some tips or ideas. You might have fun with your friends or been to a new places but at the end of the day you’ll be alone again in your room and those tips and happy moments will be voided in your mind. It will all come back again so everything is really up to you. If you want to forget someone, then you will, there is no doubt! It just takes time to heal those wounds so be strong and be patient. And if you’re ready to fall in love again I’m sure you have learned a lot already so you’ll be much smarter and stronger than before.
Move On… Life is Waiting for You to Embrace.
The funny thing about this post that I wrote before, I might be on this situation right now. The irony!
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It ain’t easy Hen. I totally understand how you feel. The romantic movies, the love songs which all seems to make the feelings worst.
You’ve tried everything but still nothing seems to make you feel better. Waking up everyday with a very heavy heart and saying, “Another day and I’m still heartbroken.”
Sucks right?
It’s like saying, “I tried to drown the pain but the damn pain learned to swim.”
Indeed, time can heal, don’t rush yourself. It’s hard but that’s the best way.
Thanks for the comment Laurie.
To clear things up I said I MIGHT, not ‘I’m on this situation already’. Better be ready though, things have changed and I don’t want to keep on expecting that everything will be as it was before… :’(
that the problem with most people, pag they broke up with someone they always try to forget them , which is like trying stick a very hot poker up your ass and try to pretend that its relaxing.
point is dont try to forget her in fact you should cherish the best times that you were together. then it would be more easier to accept it that and let go. coz you have to accept that nothing in this world lasts forever.
ako advice is pagdula na lang ug wolverine henry ug pag tan aw ug porn.
I like your post alot.
But maybe the worst problem when you’re in love with someone, still with him even when you know that this person doesnt love you.
that’s my situation.
Feels more than repressed, because I need badly to break up ( thinking that it might make me stop tearing away).
But at the same time I can’t break up(afraid to make myself feel worst).
Those posts were all good.
In my case naman, I’m still trying to hang on and longing for someone that has never been mine in the first place. I’m into a casual relationship with someone, unfortunately, i fell inlove with the guy which I know I should not be. Maraming nagbago, madalang na kami magkita at yung communication namin madalang na din. Now I miss him and I’m not sure if we will still see each other again. from the mere thought of not seeing him again scares me and I feel that I’m already broken hearted.
I know it’s my fault because I know in the first place that I should not love the guy, but i can i do, he is very lovable, caring and the feeling is different when I’m with him. i never loved this way before that I never felt so broken before.